Saturday, January 4, 2020

8 feminist Valentine's Day cards to share with your friends

Maybe your feminism says Valentine's Day is an empty ritual of patriarchal capitalism that reinforces harmful gender norms and shames people who are single or who otherwise don't meet society's heteronormative, cisgender, monogamous expectations of romance.
That's cool!
Or maybe your feminism says we should reclaim Valentine's Day to celebrate all kinds of love between all kinds of people, including close friendships.
That's cool too!
Or maybe no matter what you think of Valentine's Day, you'd still enjoy sending some fun cards to your feminist friends or significant other(s) this February 14.
Either way, we've got you covered!


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Lure your Loved One with Chocolate Day Gifts


For a sweet start to the season of love, Indiagift has introduced some amazing deals on its online gifting site for Valentine chocolate day gifts. These tempting bite-sized goodies will be a sweet surprise to lure the beloved in the magic of the season.

Indiagift is a Delhi-NCR based online gifting website that hosts gifts and delivery services on its online portal. With a commendable nexus that connects customers all over the world with local vendors in almost cities and towns in India for delivering gifts on all occasions, Indiagift has gained a large following of satisfied customers. For the biggest celebration of romantic love, universally these gifting experts have their hands full of sappy, cliché and unique romantic gift for each day of the Valentine week. From beautiful flower arrangements to delicious chocolates as chocolate day gifts you have numerous gift options to lure your beloved to participate in the biggest festival of love.

To save extra time and effort of the customers Indiagift’s online portal has special categories designed for special days and gifts so that even last minute gifts can be ordered in a jiffy. For chocolate day too, there is a special category that contains alluring chocolate or chocolate related gifts. With Indiagift, you can now order chocolate online, whether it’s a bouquet of chocolate bars or box full of assorted gourmet chocolates like Ferraro Rochers or a stupendous chocolate tower. Armed with this sweet and delicious surprise, this tempting bite-sized goodness will tantalize your girl to end and persuading her to say yes to your every proposal.

Dedicated wholeheartedly to the purpose of promoting and spreading love the website has lovely surprises planned in the form of gift combos. These lovely combos include chocolates, flowers, teddies, and cakes. You can add to your Valentine's Day cakes tradition by ordering cakes in classic flavors to designer ones which are also perfect when you wish to order birthday cake online.

However, the sweetest surprise that Indiagift offers to lovers all over is the option to have their gifts customized. You can now customize classic gifts items like cakes to trendy gifts in the personalized gifts section. The personalized gift section of Indiagift contains coffee mugs, tees, cushions, lamps, photo puzzles, and photo frames etc. You can customize these items with romantic lines from a book or a popular movie dialogue or song lyrics, this special love message will be a daily reminder of your love to them. These personalized gift items are a unique and special present that is apt for other categories like valentine day gifts and anniversary gifts. The personalized gift section also contains personalized gift baskets for times when you feel that one gift won’t suffice. These gift baskets are a wonderful way to shower your loved ones with gifts they can use daily like healthcare products, shower kits, grooming kits and even makeup products. These utility gift hampers are an all in one care package to show that you love and care for them.

No matter what occasion or person you are looking to send gifts to India, Indiagift is the right place to look for gifts that are perfect for multiple occasions and will touch the heart of the giftee in more ways than one. This Valentine’s Day let Indiagift act as your Cupid and just watch the magic unfold by logging into the official website at www.indiagift.in

Indiagift.in is one of the spear headers of the online gifting sites in India. Specializing in online delivery of gifts ranging from cakes, chocolates, flowers, sweets, and personalized gift items Indiagift’s delivery network is one of the best that spread smiles and fulfils heart desire everywhere..


23 Valentine's Day streaming options for singles, couples, and everything in between

No matter what your relationship status, Valentine's Day can be an emotional minefield. But whether you find yourself alone or coupled up — or somewhere in between — there will always be movies and television shows to get you through. Here, we've compiled 23 of our favorite romantic (or anti-romantic) options, all of which are available to stream online right now, for your viewing pleasure.

Single and loving it

1

The Wood (Netflix)

Who needs to be part of a couple when you've got great friends? This charming 1999 comedy contains its fair share of romance, but it also boasts a great coming-of-age story about some young guys who struggle with school and girls and the usual things. And, as you might expect, they've always got their friends to lean on. As the film leaps forward in time to when they're all adults (as part of a framing device involving one of the guys getting married), Taye Diggs and Omar Epps are among the stars who play them, which lends some charisma and charm to the proceedings. The movie is a nifty little period piece, buried inside a more conventional rom-com. —TV
2

Mad Max: Fury Road (HBO Go)

Is there any better way to celebrate the act of being completely kickass in your own right than watching a bunch of women be completely kickass in their own right, the better to stick it to a patriarchal monster? (And, okay, a couple of men do all right here, too.) If you're feeling any sort of ambivalence about being single this Valentine's Day, let Charlize Theron's magnificent Imperator Furiosa bring you roaring back to the side of embracing independence. —CF
3

Clueless (Netflix)

On the surface, Clueless is all about how to get and keep men. Indeed, it's based on Jane Austen's Emma, the story of an optimistic matchmaker who can find a soul mate for everyone but herself. But the beauty of Clueless — besides its countless quotable lines — is that it actually runs on friendship. Sure, Cher (Alicia Silverstone) and her friends (Stacey Dash and Brittany Murphy) want boyfriends, but they're just as happy giving each other makeovers and trading gossip. Also, this movie is just fun. We dare you to watch Cher argue her way out of a bad grade or Paul Rudd dance like an idiot without cracking a smile. —CF
4

Magic Mike (HBO Go)

If you need to, remind yourself that this movie not only has an impressive pedigree (star Matthew McConaughey and director Steven Soderbergh are both Oscar winners), but also says some important things about men’s and women’s sexuality, as well as how to survive in a down economy. Alternatively — and this is our recommendation — just give yourself over to the god of glistening eight-packs (and Channing Tatum’s bananas dance moves) and enjoy the rare Hollywood flick that lets men be objectified for a change. —TP

Single and hating it

5

Bridget Jones's Diary (Netflix)

There is arguably no better ode to hating singledom than Bridget Jones's Diary. Our titular heroine is fed up with being single and spends basically the entire movie trying to change what seems like her spinster fate, no matter how many pairs of Spanx it takes. But Bridget Jones's Diary is a smart film that doesn't hinge entirely on Bridget's quest to pair up. Played to witty, sour perfection by RenĂ©e Zellweger, the character is flawed and relentlessly funny; it only takes one drunken sing-along to "All By Myself" for you to start rooting for her to find her path, whether that means falling for a strapping barrister (Colin Firth), telling her wily boss (Hugh Grant) to suck it, or just realizing that she herself pretty great. —CF
6

Under the Skin (Amazon)

You want to know the worst thing about being single? The part where you hook up with someone gorgeous and go back to their house, and then they turn out to be an alien from some other world who wants nothing more than to devour you for reasons that are never quite made clear. This eerie film, part sci-fi and part horror, features a terrifically isolating performance by Scarlett Johansson as the alien in question, and some of the strangest, spookiest images you'll ever see onscreen. If you want confirmation that the dating scene is full of horrifying weirdos, you could do a lot worse. —TV

The hidden environmental cost of Valentine’s Day roses

Red roses in bouquets wrapped in paper.

Flowers are perhaps the easiest Valentine’s Day gift to give. They’re cheaper than jewelry and healthier than chocolates. If you plan ahead, you can give your sweetheart a nice bouquet from a florist, or maybe one of those creepy bears made of roses for rose day that are all over Instagram. If you’re not much of a planner, you can pick up a less-nice-but-still-very-fine arrangement from a grocery store the day of; flowers don’t require a ton of effort to get, even if you wait until the very last minute. But the ubiquity and accessibility of Valentine’s Day flowers obscure the long, complex journey they have to take from the greenhouse to your house, and the environmental costs that add up along the way.

American shoppers are expected to spend nearly $2 billion on flowers — most of which will be roses — this Valentine’s Day. Almost all of these valentine day roses will have been flown in from Latin America, specifically the sunny, mountainous regions of Colombia and Ecuador, the world’s second- and third-largest exporters of cut flowers after the Netherlands. Colombia alone shipped more than 4 billion flowers to the US last year, according to the Washington Post. Valentine’s Day makes up more than one-fifth of the country’s rose growers’ annual revenue.

Climate certainly plays a role in the Andean nations’ dominance. Even California, the leading producer of domestic roses for valentine day, isn’t always warm enough to produce the volume of roses shoppers have come to expect around Valentine’s Day. But climatic differences don’t tell the whole story. There’s the fact that labor costs are much lower in Colombia and Ecuador. And, as the Post points out, there’s also the fact that both countries’ floriculture industries have benefited from a longstanding trade agreement with the US that was originally intended to give Andean farmers viable alternatives to coca, the plant used to make cocaine.

In 1991, at the height of Colombia’s war against cartel boss Pablo Escobar, Congress passed the Andean Trade Preference Act, which lifted duties on certain imports from Colombia, Ecuador, Bolivia, and Peru. The Andean flower industry began to bloom, crowding out domestic growers who found it difficult to compete with their Andean counterparts who could produce flowers not only more cheaply but also year-round.


When we talk about flowers and sustainability, the biggest issue is how flowers get from their point of origin to retailers across the country. During most of the year, flowers are shipped on passenger planes, Amy Stewart, an investigative reporter and author of the 2007 book Flower Confidential, told me. “They’re put on planes that are going anyway.” But hundreds of cargo planes full of flowers fly from the Andes to Miami in the month before Valentine’s Day. According to the Post, 30 cargo jets fly from Colombia to Miami every day in the three weeks leading up to the big day and a similar amount fly out from Ecuador, amounting to more than 15,000 tons of flowers delivered in less than a month.

These flights have important consequences for the rest of the planet. Transportation is the largest source of greenhouse gas emissions in the United States, comprising 28 percent of the country’s total emissions, according to the Environmental Protection Agency. Just over a quarter of US transportation emissions come from freight over air, land, and sea. Growing aviation demand, for both passengers and cargo, helped fuel an increase in emissions in the United States last year, reversing years of decline. This is significant, as greenhouse gases like carbon dioxide and methane trap heat in the atmosphere, contributing to climate change. Demand for roses isn’t solely to blame for this crisis, but the transportation network needed to bring delicate blossoms across oceans has an outsized environmental footprint. The International Council on Clean Transportation crunched the numbers last year and estimated that those three weeks of flower delivery flights burn approximately 114 million liters of fuel, emitting approximately 360,000 metric tons of carbon dioxide into the atmosphere.

source - https://www.vox.com/the-goods/2019/2/12/18220984/valentines-day-flowers-roses-environmental-effects

Easy lemon layer cake

  Ingredients 225g unsalted butter, softened 225g caster sugar 4 large eggs 225g self-raising flour 1 tsp baking powder 75g natural yogurt 1...